Feb 9, 2022
Join Ezra as he speaks with Naami (part 2) about teaching her Dom from the bottom, compartmentalizing and shadow work.
The full list of topics include inexperienced partner issue, teaching her dom from the bottom, topping book and seeking guidance, you are not alone in teaching your dom, education through role play, 14 years friends with partner, slap in the face, being open to switching is an educational resource, dom/sub vs top/bottom, relationship vs partnership, dealing with distractions, switching headspaces and anchoring with senses, find a different teacher, old ways of mentorship and coaches, gumroad classes, patreon, checklist, be tactful, ways to discuss results, West Texas challenge, I had to broaden his perspective of it, virtual munches, shame is a boner killer, bdsm and Trauma, trauma as a source of Kink, cut kin podcast reference, abrasive elbow rubbing in the value of community, Nami broaden her Horizons online, build your community and reduce shame, dom vs. sub personas, “no one asked me to be me”, the vulnerability of playing with lovers, unpacking after scene - LARP, integrated / compartmentalize 2 personalities, Bdsm allows us to be part of ourselves and all of ourselves, Shadow work with therapist, informed consent with Shadow work, remove aftercare disagreement, monogamous, supportive play Partners, get demo from old play partners