Dec 8, 2021
Join Ezra as he speaks with Meg, a single mom exploring her exhibitionistic side. Meg also explores how being socialized as a woman can make it harder to share one’s feelings and needs. Other topics include: kink fetish explanation, recovering Catholic, roleplay, lesbian confessional, dominant third person, be the third person, shape the fantasy, simulated multiple people, risk-mitigation, risk attraction and risk mitigation, Park in Denmark where you can fuck, how can you add that element in a way that is low risk, porn and erotica as a discovery tool, tied up and blindfolded, sub and slave training description, mentorship and BDSM, my first Mentor was abusive, finding a rope community, homework as BDSM survey, pathologize fetishes, DSM and S&M pathology, what kind of masochist, stinging vs. thuddy, triggering items, make limits list, hard versus soft limits, entitled to The Fetish but not entitled to fulfillment, women are programmed to compromise, I need to know my Subs wants and needs, people pleasing at the expense of ones own needs, roleplay being used, without undermining your agency in the world, being a good sub - self-knowledge - communication, self-knowledge and communication more succinctly put, negotiation, practice negotiation in role-play intro, anal play, wishy-washy boundary, what do you like about it, what do I like about it, what does it look like sound like when you're having fun, what does it look like sound like when you're having a bad time, if I'm having bad time, Meg asks how to help me, getting out of outcome fixation, bondage and control – good Q&A, hard limits, bop bop bop, medical and mental health, mental health question rephrased, hopefully we have opened some doors, invitation to develop BDSM survey, cuddle parties after the Spanish Flu
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